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Surface Level Is Ruining Friendships—3 Ways To Stop It From Happening

2026 John Michael Lucido, Jose Caballero Gonzalez, Clayton Caldwell
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Do you have friends but still feel like nobody really knows you? This week, the guys unpack the unofficial “friendship tier system,” why deep friendships get harder as we get older, and how to take a Tier 4 friend and turn him into a Day One homie. They talk about why vulnerability doesn’t ha...

Do you have friends but still feel like nobody really knows you? This week, the guys unpack the unofficial “friendship tier system,” why deep friendships get harder as we get older, and how to take a Tier 4 friend and turn him into a Day One homie. They talk about why vulnerability doesn’t have to mean oversharing, how trust actually develops, and why the best friendships require someone to make the first move. Along the way, they share stories about college friendships, moving to new cities, marriage and kids, friendship “relegation,” and the difference between simply hanging out and actually inviting someone into your life. If you want deeper friendships but aren’t sure how to get there, this episode is for you.

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